In general I believe that people would like to be more disciplined but it likely sounds like too much of a task, more work to do or incredibly boring.

Before I truly understood my own creative process, I remember being very creatively frustrated very often without truly knowing why.

Like honestly, what if we really, truly, over-enthusiastically championed our own ideas, goals, plans and projects?

As I’ve experienced many times over, it is ok to reinvent your career as many times as you want. It is safe to do this and the learnings are immense.

A ritual that I live by, even if I only get 2 minutes to do it, is to wake up (but lay in bed a few more minutes), say thank you and ask “how can I serve today?” And let me tell you, that question is answered almost immediately.

While I love encountering those lucky folks who absolutely love their professions I think a lot more people work in the liminal space between deadlines and daydreams.

From my own experience I know that when we sit with ourselves and answer these questions we create an opportunity to build a career in a way that we are seldom encouraged to start from.

We change, our lives change, our skills change, our self awareness changes and therefore our careers may also be asking to change.

And how to move through it. This topic begs repeating because I came across a few more people recently in my own professional community that are struggling with this. I first wrote about it here.

I highly advocate for sharing your ideas, goals and ambitions with a few others. Even if they feel foolish to admit or totally out of reach- there is great power in getting these hopes and dreams out in the big wide world.

Sometimes you just have to sit with an idea, hum-and-ha it over for a bit, even if it seems you may never come to a solution.

Looking back at my career journey over the years I can certainly admit that trusting the process was and often is a challenge. Work needed to be done.

Ok so I don’t know if I’ve mastered this skill but I certainly have gotten more comfortable doing it over the years.

Have you ever tried to make something work for so long all the while yearning for for something else?

I was on the fence about the title of the post. While it does sound like click-bait, I assure you it isn’t and I promise to share the advice, what I did with it and how things have been going since then.

When creating a new path for yourself leads you to very clear and helpful information that your approach is wrong, then it’s always best to pivot. Here’s my story…

This started after a morning of deep contemplation in the gym sauna (where I spend most mornings after school drop off). I thought seriously about which moments in my day light me up the most. What experiences bring me the most joy and excitement?